Still glad I studied at BYU

1996 BYU graduate

As I waited in my seat for Daniel’s graduation exercises to begin, I realized that I graduated from BYU 30 years ago. 30!

It surprises people that I have a degree in biology teaching because I don’t fit the mold, and I never used my teaching certificate. I don’t spout off the scientific names of trees and animals unless it’s appropriate, like when we stop in Yellowstone to watch the Bison bison. The emphasis for my degree was in Zoology, and I can boast that I have dissected just about everything. I have even worked with cadavers. I studied in labs and large lecture halls, and I did a lot of field work in my degree, too. I don’t talk about my good memories of catching insects and identifying trees, but I was good at the study of biology and I loved it. I also loved teaching high school. I could feel when my students understood a concept, and I enjoyed the challenges of a classroom of teenagers. I really liked my students. I loved making interactive lessons where we would get away from our desks to learn, and I enjoyed the hunt for visual aids and the adventures of collecting wood, insects, and leaves. It was a challenge to find creative ways to teach photosynthesis and the Krebs cycle, and through such challenges, I discovered that I had a gift for teaching and wonder.

I finished my BYU course work during the first semester of our married life, and did my student teaching at Mountainview High School in Orem the next semester. We learned we were expecting Paige just before Christmas, right before I was to begin my student teaching, and we were so happy. I experienced morning sickness during the first weeks of observation in the classroom, so I smuggled in saltines which I broke into tiny pieces to sneak into my mouth. I didn’t tell my cooperating teacher I was expecting a baby, and he was surprised when I shared happy news from my ultrasound in April, just before I completed my semester with him. I didn’t want my pregnancy to influence his opinions of my teaching.

I graduated in April 1996, and I remember President Gordon B. Hinckley smiling at the parade of graduates as we came across the bridge and walked right in front of him to enter the Marriott Center. I remember the faces of my parents when I looked up at them at the Smith Fieldhouse after I received my diploma, especially my dad who was beaming. I remember my little sisters coming down to see me when it was over, and how they looked at me. I wish I could have been at their graduations to repay the support they showed me. I remember Richard taking me to the Provo temple grounds (the place I always want to go on the way home) and making sure to take several pictures to mark the day.

Provo temple grounds

I graduated Magna Cum Laude from the College of Biology and Agriculture with a degree in Composite Biology Teaching with a Zoology emphasis. I also came away with a strong background in scripture because of the religion courses I took. What a treasure.

BYU prepared me to serve my family, my community, and my church. The older me wishes to tell the younger me that my education was both a gift and a real achievement. I have been able to use every class and BYU experience as a mother, member of the Church, seminary teacher, home educator, and friend.

my parents
my little sisters

Tim & Richard and the big game

These two are a set each football season, usually in our living room. Tim got tickets from work to the BYU v Utah game last weekend and invited Richard.

Richard sent me this photo and said to notice the prominent Provo Rock Canyon temple under construction above the stands.

I know football pretty well. I hear the games and the podcasts and analysis, but it’s usually while I do some hand sewing or reading. I didn’t watch at home, but monitored the score to know how happy or disappointed Richard would be, and I smiled when BYU won.

Moving day

Daniel and McKenna are now Provo residents. We are thankful for all the pieces that came together so they could make this move. Daniel will no longer have that long commute to school at BYU.

We also had a video call with Elder Ross, so it was a bit of a reunion this afternoon.

Fun fact: I think that Tim is Daniel and McKenna’s landlord. 😄 Tim’s new adventure is that he is a property manager at my dad’s company.

A tender day

Today I have some tender feelings about Tim leaving home again. This morning I helped him carry out a couple of boxes and a duffel bag he is taking to his new apartment and we said goodbye in the dark street before he left for work. I’ve had some tears throughout the day, but I’ve also felt gratitude for the tender mercies that led to this moment.

We’ve loved reconnecting with Tim these past 3 months since he returned from his mission. He is delightful company, so funny and musical and capable, so we will miss him. But hello, since we live close to Provo we will see him soon.

For the first couple of months after his mission he worked some odd jobs, including raking leaves, moving furniture, building shelves, building and selling Christmas trees, and shoveling snow. Since early January he has worked full-time in a cabinetry shop in Provo. He builds custom cabinet doors. This move to an apartment in Provo is more progress in his search for the next right step after his mission.

Tim will attend BYU in the fall, but since he would like a career in cabinetry, he is taking time to explore that career before he launches into college. Tim thinks through decisions thoroughly and chooses his own sequence and pace. This has been his pattern since he was a little boy, and he is a remarkable person because of it.

I am so proud of our Tim.

Update on our grown children

Child is a word that applies to any age when a person is linked to a parent. Even though they are independent and strong, I am glad that I am still allowed to think of Paige, Daniel, and Timothy as my children.

I haven’t written about our older kids in a long time because they are living their own lives, very independent from us. But in my journal of tender mercies, any day that I get to talk to one of them, it makes the list of blessings for the day.

Paige and I have a phone appointment each Wednesday morning. It is something I look forward to each week.

Paige and Mike bought a house in Alabama this spring.

They both work from home. Michael is an accountant, and Paige works as an illustrator, and she has done a lot of digital art for the online Investopedia magazine. She mostly illustrates financial concepts, but she has also done some medical illustrations and more. This summer, her work was featured in a printed version of Investopedia magazine. She also did an illustration for the January 2023 Friend magazine.

Paige and Michael serve in the Primary organization at church. We will visit them later this fall, and it will be our first trip to Alabama.

Daniel lives nearby, and he begins his senior year at BYU this week, studying electrical engineering. He did an internship at L3 Harris (Richard’s company) this summer, so Richard talked to him quite a bit during the past several months.

After graduation next spring, Daniel will pursue a masters degree, and L3 Harris has offered him a job. Daniel and McKenna are quick to serve wherever they are needed. Daniel plays the organ in sacrament meeting and piano for choir, plus he serves in the elders quorum as service coordinator. McKenna served as assistant girls camp director this summer. Both of them help their local grandparents with all their hearts.

Timothy, our missionary, is on a new island, Saipan, a Northern Mariana island. This is country #4 where he has served during his mission, so I bought a new flag to display in the yard. He is excited to be on Saipan, and he and his companion are very busy teaching people. He is happy, as you can see.

He alternates with other missionaries to fly to a small island called Tinian on weekends to support a tiny group of members for church services. Here is a picture of their sacrament meeting last Sunday on Tinian. Oh, my! ❤️

We have a video call with Elder Ross each Sunday in the late afternoon, which is Monday morning for him. I have a hug scheduled with him on November 1 when he arrives home.