Still glad I studied at BYU

1996 BYU graduate

As I waited in my seat for Daniel’s graduation exercises to begin, I realized that I graduated from BYU 30 years ago. 30!

It surprises people that I have a degree in biology teaching because I don’t fit the mold, and I never used my teaching certificate. I don’t spout off the scientific names of trees and animals unless it’s appropriate, like when we stop in Yellowstone to watch the Bison bison. The emphasis for my degree was in Zoology, and I can boast that I have dissected just about everything. I have even worked with cadavers. I studied in labs and large lecture halls, and I did a lot of field work in my degree, too. I don’t talk about my good memories of catching insects and identifying trees, but I was good at the study of biology and I loved it. I also loved teaching high school. I could feel when my students understood a concept, and I enjoyed the challenges of a classroom of teenagers. I really liked my students. I loved making interactive lessons where we would get away from our desks to learn, and I enjoyed the hunt for visual aids and the adventures of collecting wood, insects, and leaves. It was a challenge to find creative ways to teach photosynthesis and the Krebs cycle, and through such challenges, I discovered that I had a gift for teaching and wonder.

I finished my BYU course work during the first semester of our married life, and did my student teaching at Mountainview High School in Orem the next semester. We learned we were expecting Paige just before Christmas, right before I was to begin my student teaching, and we were so happy. I experienced morning sickness during the first weeks of observation in the classroom, so I smuggled in saltines which I broke into tiny pieces to sneak into my mouth. I didn’t tell my cooperating teacher I was expecting a baby, and he was surprised when I shared happy news from my ultrasound in April, just before I completed my semester with him. I didn’t want my pregnancy to influence his opinions of my teaching.

I graduated in April 1996, and I remember President Gordon B. Hinckley smiling at the parade of graduates as we came across the bridge and walked right in front of him to enter the Marriott Center. I remember the faces of my parents when I looked up at them at the Smith Fieldhouse after I received my diploma, especially my dad who was beaming. I remember my little sisters coming down to see me when it was over, and how they looked at me. I wish I could have been at their graduations to repay the support they showed me. I remember Richard taking me to the Provo temple grounds (the place I always want to go on the way home) and making sure to take several pictures to mark the day.

Provo temple grounds

I graduated Magna Cum Laude from the College of Biology and Agriculture with a degree in Composite Biology Teaching with a Zoology emphasis. I also came away with a strong background in scripture because of the religion courses I took. What a treasure.

BYU prepared me to serve my family, my community, and my church. The older me wishes to tell the younger me that my education was both a gift and a real achievement. I have been able to use every class and BYU experience as a mother, member of the Church, seminary teacher, home educator, and friend.

my parents
my little sisters

The true teacher

Be sure that you don’t believe that you are the “true teacher.” That is a serious mistake… Be careful you do not get in the way. The major role of a teacher is to prepare the way that people will have a spiritual experience with the Lord.

Gene R. Cook, Teaching No Greater Call, p. 41, 1999.

I think this quote relates to many interactions in life, not just gospel teaching. Parenting, interactions with others, online presence…

When I’m in a teaching moment, my preparation matters, but only if I use it to point to Jesus Christ.

On the road again

April is the biggest month for birthdays in our extended family. It’s a good thing I am an empty nester with a flexible schedule so I have time to give attention to them. 😂 The post office has been a frequent haunt this month, as well as my car.

April is also the beginning of school year-end events. This week I got to cheer for Solomon. Tomorrow I get to be a proud mom as Daniel graduates from BYU. 🎓

My nephew’s senior night for volleyball at Skyline
Joe’s birthday
GI Joe and Strawberry Shortcake apparel
There is something vital and comforting about connecting with childhood friends.

Stop and Go

Traffic signals in Bornholm, Denmark 😄

The formula for accomplishing anything is to be consistent. I follow this formula in many areas of my life, but I can’t seem to be consistent with creativity or ideas. These are whimsical things. While I wait for the little muse to visit, I work on fundamentals like writing good sentences, even if the subject matter is a Sunday school lesson or a little blog post. Creativity may be stop and go, but I try to nurture my skills and devote consistent time to support it.

I like this quote,

Inspiration exists, but it has to find you working.

-Pablo Picasso

Exodus

In my recent study of Exodus, I’ve focused on the symbols of Jesus Christ in the Passover, Moses’ ministry, and the means by which the Lord redeemed the children of Israel,

  • Providing huge miracles and wonders,
  • Supplying daily bread,
  • Making water sweet,
  • Leading them to an oasis for rest,
  • Raising up a prophet to point them to the Lord,
  • etc.

This morning I had the idea to place our small Covid-era sacrament trays in my scripture study area. Symbols of Christ surround us in all His creations, and I’m not sure where this visual reminder will lead my thoughts and feelings this week, but we’ll see.

Exodus= from Greek, meaning, “the road out”.

Spiritually, it connotes an escape from bondage to freedom through transformation.

17 years of blogging

Dear Reader,

This week I achieved 17 years of blogging. I’ve written here longer than I lived in my childhood home…or any home. I have blogged longer than I homeschooled our kids and longer than my years of formal education. This blog has been a kind of home for my thoughts, as well as an education as I have wrestled to compose over 2,600 posts.

Here are some things you may not know:

I want to quit writing this blog quite often. 😔

I almost always feel uncomfortable and insecure as I hit, “Publish”. 😳

When someone tells me something positive about the writing, I feel so wonderful. ♥️

Unlike the early years, this blog will only occasionally have family updates. Our children have their own lives now. 👩👨👨👨

I stopped monitoring to see if people were reading and this freed my mind to write what I want. 🗽

Almost every post goes through multiple revisions, yet I am sure you have noticed I retain plenty of errors. 😬

This blog doesn’t help me feel connected to others, but I think it makes people feel connected to me. It’s solitary work.🏝️

Whenever I want to quit, words such as, “Change your attitude,” “Don’t worry about popularity,” and “Keep going,” come to my mind. So, I keep writing for my family. 🪄

Thank you for being a friend of my blog. Once something is published and public, it takes a new life in the minds of readers. This is where difficulty and disappointment can enter, but also the potential for good. The writing is mine and has its own personal meaning, but when you read, it also becomes yours to take what you need and build your own thoughts. Truly, I hope that it helps you. I write because I love.

🩷A

Easter Snapshots

I have a glimpse of family life for your reading pleasure? today.

We saw my parents and extended family on Saturday for my Mom’s Easter egg hunt, then came home to welcome Tim and Queenie who spent the night at our house. Richard mowed the lawn for the first time this season on Saturday evening, and the lawn, blossoming trees, and tulips are beautiful. We stayed up late that night talking to Tim and Queenie about their adventures. Queenie will complete her bachelor’s degree this month and Tim is busy helping his friend Josh build a house and has some stories to tell about being a property manager. They made a trip recently to Arches National Park and Goblin Valley, which were firsts for Queenie.

We had a freeze a few nights this week, and Richard protected his apple tree blossoms with a tarp and heater.

We had our middle kids with us on Sunday. Add to the energy and events of Easter weekend the four sessions of general conference, which we watched while eating cinnamon rolls, Chex mix, and peanut M&M’s. We also visited Daniel and McKenna’s newly remodeled house where they will live after Daniel graduates this month.

Although we didn’t get a complete family picture this Easter weekend, we almost had one on Sunday during a video call. Richard played with filters to delight our grandson.

In my excitement to be with my kids and extended family, I oversupplied them with desserts. After our Easter feast on Sunday, we read passages of scripture around the table to complete our long tradition of opening eggs which hold tiny objects and scriptures. Happy Resurrection Sunday!