{"id":7478,"date":"2013-06-14T07:04:48","date_gmt":"2013-06-14T14:04:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/?p=7478"},"modified":"2013-06-14T12:06:43","modified_gmt":"2013-06-14T19:06:43","slug":"the-body-hath-need-of-every-member","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/2013\/06\/the-body-hath-need-of-every-member\/","title":{"rendered":"The Body hath Need of Every Member"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>This one in a series of posts in which I will share some of the things I have experienced because I am a Mormon. In each of these posts, I will give you a basic background and share a small experience. I hope that through the sharing of these small things you can have a glimpse into my experience as a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I will also try to explain principles and doctrines of my faith that bring me so much happiness.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Background<\/strong>: During my junior year of college I lived in an apartment with wonderful friends. I attended church with them in a congregation (ward) made entirely from college-age young men and women within a four block radius. My responsibility was to serve as first counselor in the Relief Society presidency. You can read about what a Relief Society President does <a href=\"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/2013\/06\/6-muffins-and-a-few-wishes\/\">here<\/a>. We visited many young women and organized many activities. One of my responsibilities was to see that Sunday meetings always had a teacher, music, and that an uplifting message from the manual was being taught.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"color: #800000;\">The Body hath Need of Every Member<br \/>\n<\/span><\/h1>\n<p>I have always been wary of big social situations. Add to my shyness the highly charged dating environment of a &#8220;singles ward&#8221; at Brigham Young University and that I had just broken up with someone in the room and you can visualize me sneaking out the back door of the party to go home and hide in my apartment.<\/p>\n<p>So what I tell you about this experience is not boasting. I was simply escaping a really stressful social situation when I decided to visit this young woman.<\/p>\n<p>As a member of a Relief Society presidency, I was aware of an apartment with 4 girls who were not coming to church on my pathway home. As I scurried down the street, I decided to knock on the door of this apartment and say hello.<\/p>\n<p>The only young woman who was home that evening answered the door wearing her usual hat with her long blond hair streaming down her back. I knew her name, but nothing about her. I told her that I needed a place to escape and she invited me in. We talked for a long time. She showed me her collections. I learned she had served a mission for the Church. I learned that she was a cancer survivor. She removed her hat to show me that one of the consequences of her brain tumor was that her hair wouldn&#8217;t grow back on the crown of her head. &#8220;Male pattern baldness&#8221; was the reason she always wore hats.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not fooling when I tell you that I admired her. So often as I have visited women over the years for Relief Society, I have found unique and beautiful stories. Mormon women are incredibly diverse. Some may dress alike or act in similar ways, but visit a Mormon woman in her home and you will see that she is no copy.<\/p>\n<p>Our friendship grew. It was natural that we would share things that were important to us. She shared her books. I just liked talking with her. I invited her to come back to church.<\/p>\n<p>Within a few months she and her roommates did come back to church. It was a happy time to see them feel welcome there. I got married at the end of the school year and we said goodbye and I moved away.<\/p>\n<p>My friend&#8217;s cancer returned while I was living in New Mexico and she passed away about a year after we had met.<\/p>\n<p>My desire to see my friend come to church was a little bit like the desire I have to see her again in heaven. Truly, the Church has need of every member, quiet and outgoing, healthy and unhealthy, rich and poor, wounded and strong.<\/p>\n<p><em>Now there are diversities of gifts, but the same Spirit<\/em>. 1 Corinthians 12:4<\/p>\n<p><em>For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ<\/em>. 1 Corinthians 12:12<\/p>\n<p><em>Also the body hath need of every member, that all may be edified together, that the system may be kept perfect. <\/em>Doctrine and Covenants 84:110<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This one in a series of posts in which I will share some of the things I have experienced because I am a Mormon. In each of these posts, I will give you a basic background and share a small experience. I hope that through the sharing of these small things you can have a &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/2013\/06\/the-body-hath-need-of-every-member\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">The Body hath Need of Every Member<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7478","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-church"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7478","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7478"}],"version-history":[{"count":30,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7478\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7531,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7478\/revisions\/7531"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7478"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7478"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7478"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}