{"id":1767,"date":"2009-10-29T22:23:42","date_gmt":"2009-10-30T05:23:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/?p=1767"},"modified":"2009-11-17T12:42:49","modified_gmt":"2009-11-17T19:42:49","slug":"facebook-farewell","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/2009\/10\/facebook-farewell\/","title":{"rendered":"Facebook Farewell"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1766\" title=\"facebook\" src=\"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/facebook-300x112.jpg\" alt=\"facebook\" width=\"300\" height=\"112\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/facebook-300x112.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/facebook.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I cancelled my Facebook account two weeks ago. And I don&#8217;t miss it a bit. The Facebook honeymoon, for me, was over very quickly. I re-connected with a few people that I haven&#8217;t seen in years, but I&#8217;m pretty sure I could have found them using other means.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t love the incessant flow of information&#8230; some of it very personal&#8230; on my screen. And then there was the scary spam that kept showing up from one of my &#8220;friends&#8221; on Facebook. I did <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">not<\/span> want whatever virus she was carrying! I am content with a handful of a few close friends and a yearly Christmas card from others.<\/p>\n<p>I enjoy the blog experience much more because it&#8217;s deeper and I my faithful readers are few and cherished. I make it a rule to read just a handful of blogs and to visit in person with friends at least once a week.<\/p>\n<p>But, to each his own. I&#8217;m sure Facebook will go on without me. And so will all 135 of my Facebook friends. People with different personalities than mine will continue to be very happy there. A good friend of mine said that Facebook gave her support and companionship at a level she could maintain. She was grateful for the means it gave her to feel supported by friends as she worked late at night. It&#8217;s really a testament to the fundamental need we have for connection with others. Facebook, for me, didn&#8217;t offer what I needed. It gave the impression of connection, but it was too superficial for my taste.<\/p>\n<p>Post edit addition:<\/p>\n<p>Knowledge can be a burden. Knowing the needs and worries of so many people was also a burden for me. I regretted if I couldn&#8217;t meet someone&#8217;s need because of distance or time. Maybe you have felt that way, too. Sometimes we have to take a break from too much knowledge and focus on the people in our immediate circle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I cancelled my Facebook account two weeks ago. And I don&#8217;t miss it a bit. The Facebook honeymoon, for me, was over very quickly. I re-connected with a few people that I haven&#8217;t seen in years, but I&#8217;m pretty sure I could have found them using other means. I didn&#8217;t love the incessant flow of &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/2009\/10\/facebook-farewell\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Facebook Farewell<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life-according-to-angela"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1767"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1767\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1768,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1767\/revisions\/1768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.angelaross.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}